Some people really piss me off.
We took our son to Disneyland the other day.
I know, I know. Who willing signs up for torture?!
I actually saw a guy with a t-shirt on that said “Forced Family Fun” with mickey mouse ears on it.
Anyway…we were standing in line for lunch.
This woman accused Michael of cutting the line after he had been patiently waiting for what seemed like forever.
She was a total ash-hole.
I told her Michael had been waiting and she started arguing with me.
What I did next was the most surprising thing to me.
I totally let her win because…
1) I got mad at her.
2) I moved to the back of the line to appease her.
3) I rarely get mad but then I was even madder because I let this idiot get the best of me.
The people behind her kept repeating that Michael had waited in line.
These were good people!
It was as if I couldn’t even hear their positive protests because I was so frustrated by the ash-hole.
So now, not only was I dealing with feeling mad but now I was feeling like there was something wrong with me for letting this situation get the best of me.
It’s even easier to give into an ash-hole in dating.
You know, the guy that ruins it for everyone else.
You go on one bad date with a guy who has his head stuck so far up his butt he doesn’t see your awesomeness.
Somehow, you end up feeling bad about yourself even though the way he treated you ONLY has to do with him.
Worst of all, this bad date with this ash-hole only leads you to feel even more like there are no good men out there who want an actual relationship.
You might even conclude all men are ash-holes and it’s impossible to find a good man who wants a committed relationship with a smart woman.
Yet, if you did believe that you know you would have to give up on the life and love you really want to share with someone who is as great as you are.
Here’s how I handled the Disneyland ash-hole.
I realized that I should have firmly stayed the course.
I shouldn’t have let one ash-hole deter me from having a great time with my family especially when there were so many other non-ash-holes supporting us.
If I had a do-over, I would choose to politely say that I was going to stay where I was because we had been waiting in line.
I would have paid attention to the people who had been supporting us.
You can do this same thing with an ash-hole in dating.
There will always be ash-holes who don’t want commitment, are rude, or can’t see past themselves.
But…there are also non-ash-holes who want relationships, are kind, and only have eyes for you.
Focus on the non-ash-holes (aka the people in line who have your back).
Most of all, NEVER GIVE UP.
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