Do people have to PROVE themselves to you before you show them who you are?
Both of us had trust issues for years.
We didn’t let people in.
We pushed people away before they could hurt us.
We held back on saying what we felt and what was real.
We created these hard outer shells to protect who we really were.
And it works SORT OF in the short term……
It does protect you a little from the people out there who have bad intentions and who are going to hurt you.
It does shield you from some of the worst elements of humanity.
But not completely.
Every once in awhile someone sneaks there way in under your shell undetected, rips out your heart and stomps on it.
Feeling like you can’t trust people comes from a very real place.
You’ve been hurt in the past.
You’ve trusted and gotten burned.
Some of the people who’ve gotten the closest to you have hurt you the most.
And not only does not trusting fail to protect you completely but the biggest problem is it PUSHES AWAY the great people.
Having high walls for people to climb before they really get to know YOU pushes away the exact type of person you want to be in a relationship with.
If you are going to have the relationship you want it’s imperative that you learn to trust again WHILE knowing what red flags to look out for.
We teach our clients how to open themselves up and be who they really are upfront.
They are able to do this because they learn how to TRUST THEMSELVES.
They learn it’s okay to open themselves up in the beginning when they have CERTAINTY they can trust themselves to look for red flags and take action to remove someone from their lives the moment they aren’t right for them.
Start trusting yourself right now and right upfront in dating and you'll see different results.
Rooting for you,
Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn
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