Men are intimidated by you.
You should not tell men what you really do so they don’t get freaked out.
Just tell them you have a low level job.
Whatever you do, don’t mention that you have a master’s or a doctoral degree.
That’s the kiss of death.
Ever heard any of that before?
Anyone and everyone has an opinion about what you should do with your love life!
People need to stop spreading these lies!
Men are NOT intimidated by your career, education, or training.
Many men are thrilled by the idea of being with a woman who is attractive and intelligent.
Let’s take the case of Jack and Jill.
Jill is an attractive, educated, esteemed doctor.
Jack is an attractive, educated, esteemed lawyer.
He likes a woman who can have intelligent conversations with him, has her own opinions, and can also be warm and sensual.
Jack and Jill have a first date planned.
Before the date, as Jill gets ready she talks to some people in her life who give her the confusing messages above about not talking about who she really is because men will be intimidated by her.
She gets frustrated and even starts to feel a bit angry and resentful because she shouldn’t have to dim her light for a man.
She’s right that she shouldn’t dim her light, but she’s also been given so much confusing advice that now she feels overwhelmed.
She goes on this date with Jack and these thoughts are swirling in her head about who she should be and who he should be.
She doesn’t get the opportunity to just relax and connect with him because she is trying to make all these decisions in the moment about whether are right for each other.
She can’t get a read on where Jack is at either.
The date ends with little promise of a second.
It’s not that Jack was intimidated by Jill.
In fact, he was excited by the promise of Jill and happy to be in her presence.
He just felt like he didn’t stand a chance because it seemed like Jill had already made her mind up about him.
We can choose to be ourselves and the right person will come along if we put effort into it and learn from each experience.
Don’t hold back on who you are.
Let it shine it all it’s glory.
Also, give someone else a chance to be who they are without all of the drama that society (and friends and family) creates around dating.
At the end of the day, you’re just a girl and he’s just a boy and you both want to find lasting love.
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