I am terrified right now.
I just saw a message that is being widespread to women and it is 100% DISempowering and WRONG.
The message is that a man won't commit until he is "ready" even if he loves you.
I have to put a stop to this now.
What this basically means is that you are supposed to wait for a guy to decide that you’re worth it until he is "ready".
It sends the message that you should sit around totally powerless not having what you want because men just simply need time to be ready.
There are TWO people in any relationship!!!!! (Yes, I am shouting as I write this).
Where are you in all of this?!
What about your goals?!
What if you have a timeline and want to have a family (or reach any other important milestone like commitment or marriage)?!
I want you to know that there is another way and this does not have to become your reality.
Why is it that a man will tell a certain woman he doesn't want a commitment and then go on to marry the next?
It has nothing to do with timing and everything to do with fit.
A man will commit when he can imagine a future with the woman he is with.
He has to feel like he knows her, knows what to expect in their future life together, AND most importantly, that he can win with her.
A man needs to know that he can bring value into his life.
It is part of his biological wiring.
None of this has anything to do with "readiness".
YOU ARE NOT EXPECTED TO JUST WAIT AROUND UNTIL A GUY DECIDES HE IS READY TO COMMIT.
You are worth soooooo much more than this and deserve better.
At the same time, if a man is not willing to commit to you on your timeline, that doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you.
It just means that it is a not a mutual fit.
You would rather know now and move on with your life.
So, if you want the right man to pursue a long term commitment with you, let's find him together!
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