In dating, just like in any area of life, there are certain ACTIONS that get you big results.
Notice I didn’t say insights.
Insights will not get you to where you want to be in your love life unless you pair them with the best actions.
Here’s the crazy thing.
We don’t like doing the actions that lead us to getting what we want.
The actions that move us closer to our goals the fastest are the very actions we don’t like doing.
Think of any area in your life where you have a goal.
Now think of the most important action step you can take today to move you closer to your goal.
There is a 99% chance you won’t be excited to do that action today.
Your brain is wired this way. To put off this action until tomorrow. To come up with all sorts of reasons why today isn’t the day to do it.
Success in dating and relationships requires you to do the opposite of what your brain wants you to do.
Two of the most important actions in dating are:
Notice your brain is already finding reasons why these two actions are stupid, don’t work or don’t apply to you.
Now is the time to overcome your brain and schedule time each week to do both of these things NO MATTER WHAT.
Make no matter what commitments with these two actions and you’ll get closer and closer to getting the love you want.
Dr. Michael Arn
P.S. If you want help developing the skills to do these 2 actions effectively and efficiently along with the other most important actions to FIND your forever man, schedule a 15 minute Action Plan Session with us here: http://crucialhabits.com/solutions