Step #2 Meet Cynthia! She wasn't PURSUED by the Men she Wanted!

Cynthia is a smart, fun and attractive Vice President living in New York.

She kept meeting men that she either didn't have chemistry with or they didn't want a committed relationship. 

The guys she wasn't interested in were pursuing her like crazy.  

They were asking her out on dates.

They were pulling out all the stops to woo her.

They were blowing up her phone to get together.

This was both annoying and frustrating because she wasn't into these guys.

Every once in awhile she would meet a guy she was excited about and he would flake or ghost out of nowhere.

No explanation.  No obvious reason.

Once we helped her using the RELATIONSHIP MAP, we were able to easily identify that ATTRACTION was the biggest obstacle because the men she was most interested in weren't pursuing her.  

She was confident in every other area of her life.

When she met someone she was actually interested in, some old fears, doubts, and insecurities popped up and then she acted differently.

She was super confident with men she wasn't interested in and this was attracting men to her like crazy!

She had been giving and giving to the men she was meeting and these guys weren't giving back to her!

Once she felt more confident, she was able to talk to men about what she really wanted and be her true self.

She was also able to easily be flirty and create attraction in her messages and in person!

Suddenly, the men she was most interested in started pursuing her.

Tom knew he couldn't wait around or someone else would be the lucky one to marry her so he put a ring on it!

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Step #2. Attract - Are you stuck in ATTRACTING him?

The second step to getting the love you want with an incredible partner is to ATTRACT the kind of man you're looking for.

When a man feels a deep sense of attraction to you, he will pursue you.  

He will go to great lengths to let you know he is interested.

This has almost nothing to do with how you look and everything to do with how you express who you are to the men you're dating. 

If there are men who you have been excited about or into and they didn't pursue you then ATTRACTION is the primary obstacle on your relationship map.  

  • Are you doing a lot of the CHASING instead of the CHOOSING with the men you're interested in?
  • Are you always the one to move things along and suggest the first date?
  • Is he acting hot and cold? Sometimes he seems interested and other times he is not communicative or even unresponsive? 
  • Do you feel awkward or uncomfortable flirting in person or in your messaging?
  • Do you think a lot about and analyze your messages and his?
  • Do your messages with him fizzle out or go nowhere?
  • Is he not actively pursuing real dates with you?
  • Does he seem like he's not that interested in getting to know you?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, it's crucial for you to get a more effective ATTRACTION strategy.

When you're able to trigger a man's primal attraction switch he will invest in you, put consistent effort towards getting to know you and growing a relationship with you, and want to meet your needs.

We've covered the first two steps of the Relationship Map:

1. Find (click here to go back)

2. Attract

On the next page we'll talk to you about Step #3 of the Relationship Map which is what leads a man to WANT to COMMIT to you.

Continue to Step #3

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Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Creators of the 4-Step Relationship Map.  Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael are on a mission to help women have the relationship they want, with who they want without sacrificing their career or happiness.

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