Are you STUCK either...

...Being pursued by men you aren't interested in and don't feel any connection with?

OR

...NOT being pursued by the kind of men you would really like to date? 

Do you feel like you're constantly DOING ALL THE WORK and Giving, Giving, Giving only to get nothing in return in your love life?

If so, make sure to pay close attention as you read through exactly how to find your ideal man here. 

We will show you how 4 professional women who were stuck in this pattern for YEARS broke free from wasting their time dating the wrong men and FINALLY met the attractive, commitment ready men they always wanted.

What if you could find a man who is attractive, successful, and commitment ready WITHOUT ghosting, pointless conversations, wasting time, or lowering your standards in just a couple of months?

What if you could end the drama of dating NOW?

No more ghosting.

No more endless swiping.

No more pointless conversation.

No more countless hours of wasted time.

If you could make that happen NOW, would you want to?

It's a fact that modern dating is harder for professional women.

You don't NEED a man to take care of you. You can take care of yourself.

You want a partner, an equal, a confidante AND to be attracted to him!

Is that so much to ask?

Every day, we speak to incredible, professional women who are struggling to find the right partner.

You rarely meet men you feel a connection and chemistry with and when you do, they tend to ghost, flake, fizzle out, or say that they aren’t ready for a relationship.

You meet many men that are “good” on paper, but that you don’t feel chemistry or a connection with.

Dating feels like a big waste of time because it is a lot of effort for little to no results.

You go on and off again with dating because it becomes frustrating and disheartening to constantly meet men who are undesirable or unavailable.

No matter how much time you take off of dating, at some point you always start to feel the stirring desire to have love in your life again.

A friend or family member finds a great partner or gets married and then it suddenly feels like maybe it’s possible again.

You put yourself back out there, but end up disappointed again with who you are meeting.

Why can’t you just find a man who is attractive, successful, compatible, AND wants a committed relationship?

Why are there so many incredible professional women who are single?

You’ve heard many “theories” about why this is happening at an ALARMINGLY high rate for professional women in modern dating.

Here’s the thing.

99% of those theories are BS and they are the biggest REASON amazing women are single despite yearning to have the kind of man they want pursue a commitment with them.

Really think about it for a minute…..

What do all the women’s magazines and tabloids tell you about why you’re single?

“6 Sex Secrets to Drive Him Wild in Bed”

“Lose 8 pounds by the New Year”

“Say this to Make Him Text You Back”

So, according to these very popular women’s magazines you’re not hot enough, you’re not good enough in bed, you’re not skinny enough AND you need to be able to outsmart or out game a man.

What do the popular dating books for women tell you?

“You have to play hard to get.”

“You need to be irresistible.”

“You must follow these rules.”

“You have to UNDERSTAND MEN more.”

“Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.”

Doesn’t all this advice seem surface level to you?

Doesn’t it also play on your insecurities big time?

Guess what?

All the advertising and media you see every day is also designed to make you feel insecure about yourself.

Today's modern dating world is a combination of fear inducing, insecurity stoking, conflicting advice! 

Almost Everything Today is Working Against You Having the Relationship You Want and Leads you to Feel Insecure and doubtful about your relationship future. 

You don’t have to go down the same time consuming, insecurity fueling path everyone else is going down.

So, how can you escape the drama of modern dating?

By using the 4-Step Relationship Map (read on for all the details)!

The next step that is a MUST for you to meet the right man…….

….is NOT for you to join a different online dating site. 

….it’s NOT for you to hire a matchmaker. 

….it’s NOT for you to talk or flirt with a bunch of random guys while you’re out and about. 

….it’s NOT for you to waste your time on 25 first dates with men who are completely wrong for you.

….it’s NOT for you to get skinnier. 

….it’s NOT for you to up-level your career. 

….it’s NOT for you to get your own home. 

….it’s NOT for you to lower your standards or be less picky. 

….it’s NOT for you to read another relationship book or watch another youtube video.

It’s time to gain the right man’s attention, attraction and enthusiastic commitment in a completely new and different way. 

Before you do anything else it's critical that you......

USE the 4-Step Relationship Map!

That is all you need to do right now. The 4-Step Relationship Map is the KEY to FINDING the man you want and creating the relationship you deserve.

We created this 4-Step Relationship Map while working with some of the most successful and busiest women on the planet and you're about to see for yourself what they did.

These women were frustrated after years or even decades of following the standard dating advice and getting NO RESULTS. They had been following all the rules and were “doing everything right”.

We had these women use our 4-Step Relationship Map and you'll see how their lives changed instantly.

After dialing in this new, AUTHENTIC and STREAMLINED method of dating, the women we helped were able to have the best men pursuing THEM so that they were doing the CHOOSING instead of the CHASING.

Ann tried EVERYTHING.

She spent years online dating and ended up mainly with first dates that were terrible or never led to a second date.

She wasn’t FINDING the right caliber of men.

She had a super high powered job and simply didn't have time to waste anymore.

Before working with us, Ann was dating A LOT.

She was going out on lots of dates.

Trying to meet guys on all the dating sites.

She told us she wasn't meeting any guys who were anything close to her caliber.

She wasn't meeting men she had chemistry with.

These men were not compatible with her.

She was working hard on herself.

Reading books.

Absorbing dating advice from many sources.

She even worked with a coach and matchmaker for a bit.

None of it worked.

When she started using our RELATIONSHIP MAP her results transformed immediately.

First, we identified the best apps/sites for her to use in her location and with the type of man she was looking for.  

We had her completely change her pictures and what she wrote about herself in her profile.

She started using our 3-2-1 Meet Messaging strategy to seamlessly go from online messaging to a first date with a great guy. 

Within a week, she was finding, interacting with, and going out on dates with HIGH CALIBER men who were compatible with her and who she had chemistry with.

She went out on dates with a number of great guys.

After just a couple of weeks, she had narrowed it down to two amazing guys.  

She had a new problem...

She had to choose between these two great guys.

We walked her though how to discover who was the best match for her between the two guys she was dating.

Now she is married to Phil and she has never felt better about herself and her love life.

She met Phil in 5 weeks of using the Relationship Map!

The first step to getting the love you want with an incredible partner is to FIND the kind of man you're looking for.

If you don't get this first step right, nothing else matters.

It's like you're an amazing business with NO QUALIFIED LEADS coming in the front door.

How great you are DOESN'T MATTER if you have NO qualified leads.

Do you feel like you never come across men you're excited about AND who are pursuing a relationship with you?

If so, FINDING the right guy is the primary obstacle on your relationship map.  

If you aren’t meeting the right men, you will go on and off again with dating and you feel constantly burned out. As part of the top 1-5%, you need unique strategies to find men that are on your level, attractive, compatible, professional, and ready for a commitment.

If you were getting out on dates right now with men who fall into those categories, what would that do for your CONFIDENCE and RESULTS (or hope, momentum, etc?)?

There are TWO methods for FINDING your man.

1. Online

If you are NOT FINDING the kind of man you want online it's because your Online Strategy isn't working.  It's not because the apps/sites don't work.  You simply need a better strategy.  

• Are you uncertain what apps/sites are best to use in your city, age range, and to FIND the type of man you're looking for?
• Do you NOT have the most effective and authentic photos?  After looking at thousands of photos, we can say that most people are not putting up the right photos to attract the partner they want.  
• Are you unsure whether the written portion of your profile is impactful, unique, and shows your personality in a vibrant and different way?
• Do you have anything you've written that is unknowingly pushing away the right men (most women do)?
• Do you not have a messaging strategy for the online apps/sites?
• When you see a guy you think could be a great fit and message him, does he not respond? 
• Do you worry that you don't know what kind of messages to send to have it lead to an actual first date with a great guy? 
• Are you having to do all the heavy lifting in the communication before the first date?
• Are your messages fizzling out or going nowhere?
• Are you tired and bored of having endless, pointless conversations?

If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, it's crucial for you to get a more effective online strategy.

These are the most important factors in your success online.  You can take control of them and start getting results right away.  Online Dating WORKS if you use an effective strategy.

2. Offline or In Person.

We recommend you have both an online and offline strategy to FIND your man.  

Successfully finding a great guy Offline is all about WHERE you go and HOW you show up.

• Are you uncertain WHERE to find the kind of man you're looking for offline where you live?
• Are you worried you don't know what places to go offline to FIND the kind of man you're looking for so you're not wasting your precious time talking to the wrong men?
• Do you not know HOW to show up and what to do when you go somewhere offline so that the best men connect with you?
• Do you NOT connect with strangers when you're out?  Are men not talking to you or asking you out offline?
• Are you possibly giving the wrong signals when you're offline?  Do men not know your open to connecting with them?  
• Do you NOT know what to say to get the right guy to ASK for your number and ASK you out on a first date?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, it's crucial for you to get a more effective offline strategy to FIND the man you want.

You don't want to lower your standards in dating, instead you need a PROVEN system for FINDING the kind of man you want both online and offline WITHOUT wasting your time endlessly talking to men you’re not interested in. 

Cynthia is a smart, fun and attractive Vice President living in New York.

She kept meeting men that she either didn't have chemistry with or they didn't want a committed relationship. 

The guys she wasn't interested in were pursuing her like crazy.  

They were asking her out on dates.

They were pulling out all the stops to woo her.

They were blowing up her phone to get together.

This was both annoying and frustrating because she wasn't into these guys.

Every once in awhile she would meet a guy she was excited about and he would flake or ghost out of nowhere.

No explanation.  No obvious reason.

Once we helped her using the RELATIONSHIP MAP, we were able to easily identify that ATTRACTION was the biggest obstacle because the men she was most interested in weren't pursuing her.  

She was confident in every other area of her life.

When she met someone she was actually interested in, some old fears, doubts, and insecurities popped up and then she acted differently.

She was super confident with men she wasn't interested in and this was attracting men to her like crazy!

She had been giving and giving to the men she was meeting and these guys weren't giving back to her!

Once she felt more confident, she was able to talk to men about what she really wanted and be her true self.

She was also able to easily be flirty and create attraction in her messages and in person!

Suddenly, the men she was most interested in started pursuing her.

Tom knew he couldn't wait around or someone else would be the lucky one to marry her so he put a ring on it!

The second step to getting the love you want with an incredible partner is to ATTRACT the kind of man you're looking for.

When a man feels a deep sense of attraction to you, he will pursue you.  

He will go to great lengths to let you know he is interested.

This has almost nothing to do with how you look and everything to do with how you express who you are to the men you're dating. 

If there are men who you have been excited about or into and they didn't pursue you then ATTRACTION is the primary obstacle on your relationship map.  

• Are you doing a lot of the CHASING instead of the CHOOSING with the men you're interested in?
• Are you always the one to move things along and suggest the first date?
• Is he acting hot and cold? Sometimes he seems interested and other times he is not communicative or even unresponsive? 
• Do you feel awkward or uncomfortable flirting in person or in your messaging?
• Do you think a lot about and analyze your messages and his?
• Do your messages with him fizzle out or go nowhere?
• Is he not actively pursuing real dates with you?
• Does he seem like he's not that interested in getting to know you?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, it's crucial for you to get a more effective ATTRACTION strategy.

When you're able to trigger a man's primal attraction switch he will invest in you, put consistent effort towards getting to know you and growing a relationship with you, and want to meet your needs.

Angela had a super successful career, a very supportive family, and tons of awesome friends.

But...No matter what she tried, for years she struggled to find men who wanted to be in a committed relationship. 

She couldn’t figure out why she wasn’t having success in love. 

She felt like there was something missing. 

She had always wanted a loving relationship and family as part of her future. 

She was putting a ton of time and effort into dating but it just wasn't going anywhere.

She started to feel really worried about her timeline and the possibility that she might not have the family she really wanted.

Angela made a COMMITMENT to herself that she was going to do whatever it took to figure it out.

Using the Relationship Map, we figured out that she was getting stuck with CONNECTION because the men she was meeting weren't making a commitment to her. 

We got to work right away and Angela made some SIMPLE yet POWERFUL changes.

She broke through old patterns and started to see results in WHO she was dating.

She started making a deep connection with men so they could see a future with her.

After 11 weeks she got into an exclusive relationship her now husband!

A couple of months ago, they also fulfilled their dreams of having a family together and they welcomed their first, adorable baby boy into this world!

We are beyond happy for Angela.

The third step to getting the love you want with an incredible partner is to CONNECT with the kind of man you're looking for.

Connection is what sustains a long term relationship. Creating a deep connection prevents things from fizzling out and leads a man to pursue a commitment with you.

If you keep meeting men who aren't pursuing a COMMITMENT with you, Connection is the primary obstacle on your relationship map.  

• Have you started seeing someone, think it's going well, and then suddenly he starts to act distant and withdraw?
• Are you the one always moving the relationship forward or keeping it going?
• Do you feel like every time you bring up the topic of where the relationship stands, he avoids it or changes the topic?
• Are you unsure what he wants long term with you?
• Are you wanting to make the relationship with someone exclusive or to be committed to each other but he seems ambivalent and “wishy-washy” about the situation?
• Have you felt like he’s AFRAID to commit to you, taken you for granted, or didn’t value you as a person?
• Is he not letting you in and sharing what he wants or how he feels?
• Are you worried he might be "playing the field"?
• Are you unsure what to say and do to CONNECT with the kind of man you want on such a deep level that he sees you as different than anyone he’s ever met?
• Do you NOT know HOW to trigger his biologically wired commitment switch so you won’t have to do any of the chasing to create the commitment you want?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, it's crucial for you to get a more effective CONNECTION strategy.

Lina kept getting her heart broken by emotionally unavailable men.

She would fall for these guys who she had chemistry with and who were great on paper only to be left wanting more from them.

Many of these relationships lasted years.

These guys had everything she THOUGHT she wanted and yet she would end up time and time again feeling like was GIVING, GIVING, AND GIVING and never getting her needs met.

Using the Relationship Map, we helped Lina identify what she ACTUALLY desired in a man and in her dream relationship.

We helped her create a foolproof selection process using our NEVER SETTLE SOLUTION so that she was CONFIDENT she was choosing the right man for her.

Once she had this confidence and clarity she was able to meet the man she always wanted and feel certain he was right for her. 

The fourth step to getting the love you want with an incredible partner is to SELECT the man you're looking for.

It's important you know HOW to CHOOSE the right guy for you long term.

Once you have great men pursuing you, it’s crucial you have the best strategy to select the right guy for you. 

If you keep getting into relationships with men who aren't compatible with you or who aren't right for you long term, SELECTION is the primary obstacle on your relationship map.  

• Do you not have clarity on what you want & desire in your partner long term?
• Do you not know what to look for in the right guy for you?
• Are you unsure HOW to get to know a guy quickly to discover if he's a fit for you?
• Do you not know what feelings inside of you to listen to and which ones to ignore when SELECTING a man long term?
• Do you have a hard time figuring out what you should and shouldn't compromise on in a relationship?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, it's crucial for you to get a more effective SELECTION strategy.

You Have a Simple Choice Right Now

You can say, "Yes, this all sounds great" and feel good that you learned something new today and simply go back to living your life.

That’s what most people do. They feel good and satisfied because they learned something new.

Learning something DOESN'T mean anything if you don't TAKE ACTION.

If you don't know exactly where you are getting stuck and don't have your Relationship Map to fix it, you’ll go back to getting the same results you’ve been getting.

That’s why 75% of people aren’t in a happy and loving relationship.

They don’t take the next step.

They tell themselves they’ll do it “someday”.

Nothing will change if you don’t do something different now.

If you don’t take action on this now, where will you be in 2 months? 6 months? 1 year? 5 years? 10 years?

The other DECISION you can make right now is to prioritize this area of your life and commit to finding the man you want now and creating a lasting relationship.

Imagine how amazing your life will be in a year from now when you are in a committed, exclusive, best friends and lovers relationship with the man you've always wanted.

How We Can Help 

We help professional women BREAK FREE from having to go on date after date with the wrong men. 

We are committed to getting you results and there are a few things our most successful clients have in common.

Our clients are 100% confident that they want a committed relationship. They see the value this will bring into their lives and they are ready for it NOW. They don't need a partner to take care of them, they WANT a partner to share their lives with.

We can coach you to use this 4-Step Relationship Map in your own life to make sure you get the love you want.

"Before I worked with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael, I had a lot of frustration with dating and trying to meet the right guy.  I was going on a lot of first dates that would never lead to a second date. I was really worried that I wasn’t going to meet anyone that had the qualities that I was looking for.

When I started working with Ashley and Michael, I felt really strapped by time and I was worried that I couldn’t really make it work. I am super active, dedicated to my career, have a ton of hobbies, and love to spend time with friends. I realized that I wasn’t making love a real priority. I wasn’t taking the time to dedicate to it. I knew I needed to make some sacrifices or it wouldn’t work out.

I didn’t even have to rearrange anything major! I scheduled the time and cut back a little on other activities that I would normally do.  I learned the simple system to follow and I found that I actually spent my time way more effectively. It was funny because I didn’t realize how much time I was spending thinking about this but not actually doing it.

After being in the program for 8 weeks, I met an amazing man and we are exclusive. I made dating a priority. I used the online and offline strategies that I learned and I followed the 3-2-1 meet strategy that they taught me to a “T”.

I couldn’t believe that it worked so well! I focused on having a good time, I “unwrapped the present” and on the fifth time we went out, he told me that he wanted to be exclusive, exactly how Ashley and Michael said it could happen!

The guy I am dating will say things to me about how I give him green light signals and I am totally laughing because he loves all of the things I learned to do.

On the second through fifth dates, I was really the selector without attachment. Before working with the Arn’s, I would have been worried to ask if he wanted kids or talk about how I wanted a relationship. Now, I felt confident asking in the new ways they showed me and he responded so well! I was also ok if we weren’t on the same page and in the past I wouldn’t have felt that way.

I was engaged in the process, focused on what I want, and made shifts in my mindset through what I learned. Before, I had a scarcity mindset. I felt like it had to work with a particular person instead of focusing on whether or not we were compatible. When I changed my mindset, I was able to move on more quickly. I also learned how to assess compatibility.

I am happier than I have ever been in a relationship!

The system definitely works!"

-- Carly, 35, Southern CA